Comments on: Violence of the Domestic Kind is Perceived Everywhere

By: penumbrook

penumbrook — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 05:23:59 +0000

Thank you for your comments, tsanders@hscadv.org.

My blog and website are not about gossip or speculation. My stories are about the failure of Hawaii media to report facts and the incredible bias against men. Perhaps you have not yet read my web site. I have been abused. My children are being abused. Yet the Hawaii Family Court has done nothing but put my children in the hands of an abuser.

If a man is being abused, he will not get help, but he will be assumed to be the perpetrator. There is no support for male victims of domestic violence. There is no safe for our children, only sorry.

The HSCADV’s mission is to support women and condemn the men in intimate relationships. Until you understand that women initiate DV as often as men, you will never understand, much less end domestic violence in Hawaii or anywhere. Instead, your mission only perpetuates and, likely, increases DV in Hawaii.

I am sorry that you are so angry that you think this is gossip and speculation. I view it as education. It is long past time to stop the mis-information of the feminist radicals who are destroying families for political gain. When you change your mission statement, perhaps you may begin to help and heal.

By: End Violence

End Violence — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 20:23:51 +0000

It is sad to know that someone’s death, either man or woman, becomes fuel for gossip and speculation. The sad fact is that someone was senselessly murdered. I cannot claim to know the victim or the perpetrator and their life stories. All I can say is that I hope we can take a valuable lesson from this. Anyone, man or woman, can be a victim of domestic violence. If you think you know someone who is being abused, even if he is a man, reach out and provide support. Get them help! Better safe than sorry!

By: penumbrook

penumbrook — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 10:06:41 +0000

I have six sisters. I know they would say what you have if I were to suffer as John did.

There are two people at the Honolulu Advertiser who have the editorial freedom to bring John’s story to the public. Rob Perez and Jim Dooley. Perez is extremely biased. Dooley is as fair as a man can be.

Let me know if I can help.

Larry at:
http://www.mywiferanoffwithourkids.com/

By: penumbrook

penumbrook — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:46:09 +0000

I don’t write out of anger. I write out of a desire to see my kids. I write because there are too many people standing in the way of justice. I know psycho women who go to church.

The Honolulu Advertiser creates a bias in every story that involves violence between a man and a woman. In each story, men are perpetrators, women are victims. The opposite is never true.

This helps fuel a domestic violence industry in Hawaii. The industry profits lawyers, judges, psychologists, social workers, and other characters who operate outside Constitutional protections.

Please contact me penumbrook at yahoo.com.

John needs justice. I can help by the experience of some hard lessons learned.

By: someone who cares

someone who cares — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:43:33 +0000

Thank you for leaving that comment. I am so glad that there are people out there who don’t automatically believe what they read.
My brother had a great dad, the best we could ever ask for. This woman will never know the man she took him away from all of us. I hope she pays for it for the rest of her life.

By: penumbrook

penumbrook — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:33:05 +0000

I appreciate your comments. I agree that I have limited information. Most reports from the Honolulu Advertiser are biased and lack information. That is what I am trying to point out.

The sad thing is that many who read this newspaper will jump to conclusions far worse than I have. I don’t know John, but I give him the benefit of being an honorable man and human being capable of making mistakes.

But I have seen the Hawaii Judicial System destroy people’s lives. And I know of some who will take up the cause of this Rachel and make her to be an “abused woman.” That is what scares me.

I may not have facts but I have experience with a system gone awry.

You and I may be on the same page.

By: John Doe

John Doe — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 09:05:45 +0000

Look asshole, Im gonna try to say this as politely as I possibly can. But I probably won’t be able to.
You better get your facts straight and do more research than looking up headlines in newspapers before you go out and start publishing your half wit thoughts. The Maui case for example, or how you so insensitively call it “Woman stabs man, Man dies”. First of all, the girl wasn’t his girlfriend, not that you would know, the newspaper say she was. Second, the abuse was vice versa. And third, Ms. Berta has a criminal record did you ever stop to think Rachel was just psycho? Of course not. Which is why I call your thoughts “half wit”. You have no clue what a shit storm this girl will soon be in.
Please ignore the anger you are feeling for my harshly put corrections, and either write the truth, or don’t write at all.

By: someone who cares

someone who cares — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 08:31:20 +0000

Before you go writing about things you have no idea about, you should get your facts straight. About the woman stabbing the man, it was NOT domestic abuse. I mean how could it be? they weren’t even together. You hurt a lot of people out there when you start you write this kind of shit. John was moving back to Oahu to be with his family and his 4 year old son, and the woman went crazy. She had a history of harassment and violence. John was one of the nicest most generous people to be here. How can you twist the story to pitty her. get your facts straight. RIP john