Sahel Kazemi was just like any other young 20-year-old woman chasing after the sperm of an MVP football player, until Tennessee Titan’s, Steve McNair’s body was found riddled with bullets and Sahel’s was found near his with a single gunshot wound to the head; the weapon fallen near her body.
Tenneseean.com quotes another point of view, Kazemi’s sister: “She would never kill anyone, ever.”
The Honolulu Advertiser picks up the story stating the most controversial point of view that the killing “raised questions today about his relationship with the 20-year-old woman.”
What questions?
We all know how often this has played out here in the islands. The one with the single gunshot wound to the head is the guilty party. HA has little to go on (so do I), yet the well-read newspaper places doubt where there should be none. Had the bullet wounds been reversed, there is no doubt that the dead man would have been convicted before the story was published.
When a woman commits a crime, it is too often because she is mentally unstable, she was protecting a family as she does the greatest harm, she is protected by American’s twisted system of justice, and she sucks down hundreds of thousands of taxpayer dollars devoted to domestic violence. The woman “victim” who perpetrates a crime against a family is an instrument of fear and democracy’s greatest weakness.
Something gets lost when stories like these clearly show the killer recently dumped an ex-lover, scored a high-income male, was arrested in her new Escalade for DUI, refused a breathalyzer telling the cop she was high not drunk, and her co-workers are quoted saying, “We talked about who had more fashion sense, and who was the cutest, and who could get more boys, you know some of the stuff girls do.”
A part of the story is not told when we learn that Kazemi was waiting for, possibly pushing for, McNair’s divorce to be finalized from a 12-year marriage when there were never any divorce papers filed.
Put together the drugs, arrests, a little jealousy, a loaded pistol…
Well, you get the idea.
Her sister is quoted “All she was trying to do was have fun,” Salmani said. …Salmani now fears McNair was using her sister, because she was a young woman with a pretty face. She fears jealous people in his life are the reason her sister is dead.” Did the Tennesean just allow a murderer’s sister to shift the blame right back on McNair?
To their credit, HA doesn’t immediately cast blame, “Authorities didn’t immediately say who was to blame for the killings, but they weren’t looking for any suspects. Police do not believe McNair’s wife was involved.”
So some of the stuff girls do is try to get more boys. Maybe trading-up to the richer, more successful boy? Maybe milk him for money, jewelry, cars, and a “fun” lifestyle. Maybe get married until the next “boy” comes along. She’s guaranteed money in the separation. Maybe have a child. She’s guaranteed child support for 20 years.
Today, this is what girls do.
Men are a commodity. Good men like McNair are hard to come by.
Girls like Kazemi don’t want to share these men with others.
And that’s the big secret of the Domestic Violence Advocacy Industry. Women like Krazy Kaz are a dime a dozen.
The smart ones don’t use guns. They use the court. Their parenting style is to call 911 when the father wants to see his children. A good portion of their lifetime earnings comes from child support agencies. And the children are used as weapons.
The kids are caught in a vicious cycle. The New York Times has their own story on McNair’s murder and, close by that, is Erik Ekholm’s analysis In Prisoners’ Wake, a Tide of Troubled Kids.”
Ekholm’s story talks about low-income, black men in family cycles of self-destruction.
“The chances of seeing a parent go to prison have never been greater, especially for poor black Americans, and new research is documenting the long-term harm to the children they leave behind… At any given moment, more than 1.5 million children have a parent, usually their father, in prison… Scholars agree that in some cases children may benefit from a parent’s forced removal, especially when a father is a sexual predator or violent at home. But more often, the harm outweighs any benefits.”
As the world of fathers implodes in our uniquely American judicial system, women like Kazemi and her sister are still looking to place the blame on men.
It is long past time for American culture to recognize the threat.
Strengthen the family. Teach democracy to the youngest child. Practice good citizenship and exercise our responsibility as parents. And in divorce, protect the children from the harm of an alienated, incarcerated or dead parent.
McNair’s four children have a tough road ahead. For many other fathers, all it takes is a phone call to put the father back in the child’s life.
Find out more about women like Kazemi on my web site at www.livebeatdad.com
